Manifest Your Destiny

Okay, you all know I love Dr. Wayne Dyer and right now I’m reading his book Manifest Your Destiny. Basically, Dr. Dyer believes that we possess the power within ourselves to attract that which we want into our lives. And what is this source of power that allows us to create our desires? Our divine nature. As children of Gods, we too possess creative powers.

This isn’t blasphemy. Heck, I’ve co-created with God on 3 separate occasions. I gave birth to twins, and then two singletons. If I can procreate, surely I can co-create anything I want or need. Or maybe I can just allow or invite what I want or need into my life by being what I want or need.

If it’s true that like attracts like–and it is–then if I want more love in my life, I can attract more love by being more loving. If I want more peace, I can be more peaceful. Sounds simple, right?

But what if I want more money? How do I become money? Well, let’s look at what money provides. Money supplies freedom from want and provides a sense of security. Money allows us to buy things we need and even allows us to buy things we don’t need. We can use money to entertain ourselves and others, donate to charity, basically, money supplies us with a means to secure for ourselves that which we need and desire in our lives. So desiring money is really desiring the ability and freedom to be able to secure whatever you may want or need.

So desiring to attract money into your life is too broad. Figure out first why you want more money. What is it that you hope this money will do for you. Once you figure that out, you are in a position to start manifesting your destiny.

I don’t want more money (okay I won’t lie, having more money is always nice), what I really want is the peace of mind that having a lot of money–stashed away in case of a rainy day–supplies. I want security so I don’t have to rely on others. Which is smart and dumb. Smart that I want to be self-sufficient. Dumb that I think I have to hoard and stash my money away in case of a rainy day.

What if all I need is always accessible? What if I could gather my manna daily and stashing it away only caused it to rot? Is it too cumbersome to trust in God to supply or believe in my own abilities to provide for my family each day? Do I really need to trade my time now amassing protection against a future deprivation? A deprivation that really is only a state of mind? If we embrace abundance and believe in our ability to attract what we need into our lives, we will focus on living in the moment and enjoying every present second.

Gods are ever present. Gods don’t hoard. Gods know that all they ever need or will need is always available and they realize that whatever they currently have is always sufficient for their needs.

I began with the intent of discussing the principles of manifesting. I diverged, which is okay because I traversed some interesting terrain. But don’t worry I’m not done discussing this art. I’m just wrapping up for now because I want to go manifest my destiny by studying what has been written in my stars 😉 I’m off to study some astrology!

Natal Chart

I’m having so much fun exploring my astrological birth chart, also known as a Natal Chart. It’s far more comprehensive than just your zodiac or sun sign reading. Here is my Natal Chart reading from and it explains me to a T:

Anonymous Sex F
Ogden, UT 49 United States 16/08/1978 09:06 – Julian day 2443737.13
Timezone -6.00 ST 5.17 Lat 41.13 Long 111.58


Anonymous’s sun sign describes her basic, most inherent personal nature and sense of self, it is how she identifies herself in relation to the world around her.

Some keywords that will help you understand Anonymous:

*A leader

Every Leo possesses a bit of the sun and each has a unique way of radiating her sense of self and her power. Born with a Leo Sun Anonymous promises to be dramatic, colorful and passionate.

She will be proud, oftentimes regal and will not mind being the center of attention and may, in fact, crave it. When an external spotlight does not appear Anonymous has no problem creating her own and will do so through drama, melodrama or a grand display of her talents.

One of Leo’s inherent traits is her pride. She supports this strong need for self-esteem by who and what she has around them. Hence, Anonymous draws her own sense of self from her friends, her lovers, the beautiful things she owns. This helps explain why she will tend to be so focused on appearances – hers and others.

Like the powerful male in a lion’s pride or the equally powerful alpha-female a Leo takes care of the people she has invested her heart into. She is fiercely protective, usually effuse in declaring her feelings and showers loved ones and lovers with gifts and trinkets, baubles and goodies. That can be a problem when her financial reality does not back up her need to lavish attention through her purchases. When Anonymous feels good about her life she feels good about herself and there is nobody brighter or more joyful to be around. Her optimism is contagious, her ability to lead and motivate is empowering and she attracts others like moths seeking a flame.

When Anonymous does not feel good about her life she finds it difficult to feel good about ‘self’ and the opposite of the bright, radiant sun-self surfaces, a dark, lonely being lost in the shadows of despair. A despairing Leo is a melodramatic Leo and everyone around them knows about her troubles.

In a relationship: Anonymous will want to show off her partner’s best side and loves nothing more than a date out in the big, bright world where others can notice them. Leo’s are playful, deliciously indulgent lovers and she has the ability to make her partner feel like the most magnificent person on the planet. She loves getting gifts and she loves giving gifts. Anonymous needs to be remembered and a surprise goodie is the perfect way to honor that. Anonymous will tend to tolerate dramatic displays from a partner – getting attention even if through a loud, passionate argument is better than getting no attention at all. She will not tolerate being ignored, feeling unappreciated or taken advantage of. An angry Leo is a force of nature that has no equal. Leo has claws. Leo is not afraid to use those claws when angry or defensive.

The Moon Sign helps you understand how a person will react in an emotional situation. It defines the manner in which she deals with her instincts, her self-protective nature and how she both nurtures and is nurtured.

Anonymous will be cautious and serious about investing herself emotionally. Heart affairs are serious matters and seldom pursued for frivolous whims or attractions. She will need to feel there is real potential behind a connection before she is willing to make an emotional investment.

Capricorn Moons can be calculating. A partnership must serve Anonymous’s long-term agendas and plans. Feelings are seldom “just feelings” but instead are tools that help achieve important goals.

When worried Anonymous will retreat and reflect. This Moon sign tends to disconnect when it feels threatened. She will protect herself by attempting to control and manipulate the external situation. She never forgets a wound – but can learn to forgive one.

Anonymous will always have an idea and that idea will tend to be big, bold, and showy. Conversations can quickly focus on “self” and self-involvement.

She is a strong, courageous thinker and may have profound leadership abilities. Has a way of stating her intentions in such a confident, self-assured manner that others easily fall into agreement.

she can be verbally bossy and won’t easily – or happily – follow someone’s else’s rules.

May be extremely outspoken.

Anonymous is a romantic creature with a deep appreciation for all the beautiful, poetic attributes of love. Dislikes coarseness, disharmony and harshness. Seeks to create a peaceful, balanced union.

She prefers a partner who can tune into her own personal needs and make choices for “both” that are appropriate to those needs. Will not be comfortable when forced into a decision and is usually skillful at sidestepping it.

Atmosphere and physical surroundings are very important. A romantic evening should be as artfully and aesthetically arranged as possible.

You may never really know with any certainty when Anonymous is moving after a goal. Her actions are quiet and geared towards making as few waves as possible. She invests her personal energy best when the waters around her are calm and when she has a clearly defined goal to attach to.

Unfairness and injustices (personal and transpersonal) are, however, capable of creating sudden fierce actions on her part. She is driven to bring equality into play.

A creative outlet can be a brilliant tool to harness her passions and ambitions.

Can find it hard to decide on a course of action.

Anonymous believes that expansion begins at home and looks there for support, understanding and generosity. Wraps her belief systems in a traditional framework. Needs to feel she is an important, supportive part of her loved ones lives.

Anonymous can be an obsessive worrier or may rebel against even the most practical concerns and become wild spirited and carefree. May become compulsive in regards to her diet and fitness regime or will cast them all aside without a second thought. She can become hypercritical if she feels her personal decisions are coming into question or if she is forced by circumstance to change her habits and routines. Needs to learn moderation in areas of personal health, fitness and in the caretaking of others. She can nurture a remarkable vitality through a good sense of humor combined with the right intent in regards to keeping herself healthy and fit.

Can make a compassionate, self-sacrificing healer with profound recuperative powers.

Anonymous belongs to a peer group that catalyzes societal change through the drastic input of sometimes volatile individuals and extremely focused group affairs. How the world deals with sexuality also experiences sweeping change. New diseases can surface which, in turn, breeds advancements in the field of medicine and health.

Anonymous expresses self through shared interests, altruistic concerns and her friendships. Needs to feel involved in positive change. Searches for a sense of life purpose through ideals and her ability to achieve something for the good of others.

Anonymous’s emotional body finds expression and comfort through her creative outlets. She may be a natural artist who channels her feelings into the treasures she creates. Often takes emotional risks.

Anonymous’s most important thoughts will be kept extremely private. Intuitive and resourceful. Enjoys problem solving on important worldly matters of a spiritual or altruistic nature. Feels most comfortable applying her ideas behind the scenes.

Appearances are important to Anonymous and she cares how others see them. Wears her heart on her sleeve. How her partner looks matters to Anonymous and she is more than eager to make-over and restyle her current romantic interest. Enjoys introducing her partner to others.

Anonymous is active, energetic, highly competitive and not afraid to act on passions, desires, ideas or needs. Believes in going out and getting what she wants. Inspires those around her to become more active. Chooses a physical approach whenever possible.

She has a strong need to be involved with others of like mind. Enjoys humanitarian ideals and objectives. Usually has excellent leadership qualities when she believes in the cause. Friends are drawn to her supportive, encouraging aura.

Anonymous will tend to put strong limits on her personal dreams. She is seldom comfortable with her intuitive body and finds practical, logical ways to apply intuition or instinct. Has immense gifts of intent, focus and self-discipline available to those in need. Works most comfortably behind the scenes in a setting where something is being done for the “good of all”. Psychic abilities are possible.

Anonymous experiences extreme changes in her personal finances at different periods through out her life. She can move from pauper to millionaire back to pauper back to millionaire. May earn her living income through unusual methods or in unusual ways. Can be an impulsive spender. Has unusual tastes in personal collections.

Dreamy, creative and usually talkative Anonymous may find it hard to stay focused on any one subject. Will tend to have considerable literary talents but must find a realistic way to focus and utilize them. She may promise far more than she is capable of carrying through with. Learns by osmosis. Prefers intuitions to cold, hard facts.

There is an unmistakable intensity about Anonymous. Her eyes may be deep and penetrating, the kind of eyes that seem to see through all the veneers of situation right to its truth. She will tend to be in control of her immediate environment and everything from the way she moves through her manner of conversation speaks of power. Yet, she is probably not comfortable in any kind of spotlight and will tend to remain on the sidelines, ever watchful.

Sun in Conjunction to Mercury

Communications come easily to Anonymous especially when it involves expressing her own ideals, needs, desires and ambitions. Others tend to find her sincere when speaking her mind. A dynamic conversationalist with a gift of words – even if she becomes a little self-focused from time to time.

Venus in Conjunction to Mars

Passionate, sensual, highly proactive when it comes to love and romance. She is seldom shy about her needs and enjoys a physically active partnership. May possess powerful artistic talents including those connected with performing.

Mercury in Conjunction to Saturn

A strong, critical thinker capable of applying discipline and common sense to complex matters. Anonymous is probably not fond of small talk or conversations that seem to have no point to them. Adept at putting things together. Loves an intellectual challenge.

Venus in Conjunction to Pluto

Sensual, charismatic and sexually intense. She has deep, smoldering desires and believes in the power of her sexuality and sensuality. Usually unshockable. Has a very strong attachment to her intimate fantasies which also run on the intense side. Magnetic aura. Tends to be loyal and expects loyalty in return.

Moon in Opposition to Jupiter

Anonymous can may feel out of control of her surging emotions. Tends to experience extreme emotional highs and extreme emotional lows. Often needs to learn to balance how much she gives and what she expects in return from an emotional attachment. Can overreact to disappointments or worries.

Mars in Conjunction to Pluto

Anonymous possesses the kind of personal power and magnetism that makes almost any goal achievable. Passionate, ambitious and resourceful. Nothing stands in the way of victory. Thrives on competition when the playing field is equal.

Sun in Conjunction to Saturn

Anonymous tends to take a serious approach to her self-identity and her life during her early years and becomes younger at heart as she grows older. Responsible and self-disciplined. Capable of focusing her personal power to achieve her goals and convictions.

Carries high expectations both of self and others. Is careful in the way she expends her personal energy. Seldom – if ever – impulsive.

Jupiter in Sextile to Ascendant

Anonymous has a larger-than-life persona|personality. Expresses herself dramatically. Her inherent personality traits, her fears, desires and passions tend to be amplified. Has the gift of making others feel comfortable and good about themselves.

When Anonymous opens her front door she “expects” to find a sun-filled, opportunity-rich day await her. If she finds, instead, clouds, rain and darkness she seldom concedes defeat and instead barges ahead ready to make the most of things.

Sun in Trine to Neptune

Anonymous possesses a magnetic, intriguing, oftentimes enchanting personal aura. The people in her life tend to see Anonymous as Anonymous wants to be seen. May be a powerful spiritual role model when the rest of her personalities supports it.







I just started my first book on astrology and am having a lot of fun reading all about the various astrological signs. And I’m actually surprised at how accurate my description is as well as the descriptions I just read for my spouse and my older brother and little sister. I haven’t yet read all the deets on everyone’s signs, but plan to in a moment. For now, I thought it would  be fun to read the Zodiac for Leo:

Leo Strength Keywords:

– Confident
– Ambitious
– Generous
– Loyal
– Encouraging

Leo Weakness Keywords:

– Pretentious
– Domineering
– Melodramatic
– Stubborn
– Vain

Leo and Independence:

Leo is very independent but they need something to control and someone to admire them and appreciate them. They are fully capable of being greatly successful on their own but they are much happier if they have an audience and a following of people who look up to them. They would prefer not be alone.

Leo and Friendship:

People are attracted to Leo’s zest for life and their warm spirit. They have the ability to lift up one’s spirits and provide encouragement when times are rough. Their enthusiasm attracts people, Leos are social butterflies, not because they want to be but because people always naturally gravitate and surround the Leo. Leos are very difficult people to not like, they are usually fairly balanced, realistic people. They never dwell on the past and they will think you are strange if you do. Some Leos might be too caught up in themselves and be very self-centered but they are never too self-absorbed to help anyone who needs it. They pamper their friends and treat them well. A Leo is the ultimate friend. They do not hold a grudge and they are very forgiving. They have respect and understanding of people’s differences.

Leo and Business:

Business dealings are easy and successful for Leo, if they are in command and control. This can cause conflict in the workplace should the Leo not be in a position of superiority, but they usually get there eventually thanks to their powerful drive to succeed, in other words, they are excellent leaders because this is their kingdom they have to control, and they do it well. Leo has an amazing ability to get along with people and they work best in a group as opposed to alone. They can be very diplomatic in a group setting and can delegate people well, however, Leo will not take orders. They need to give orders but with their enthusiasm and cheerfulness, other people do not have a problem taking orders from a Leo because they are never condescending and they treat others with respect and equality. Leos are full of drama, flair, and extravagance and this reflects in the business world. They make an impact, they make a difference in the workplace and help to keep the parts moving in sync and iron out any problems before they arise. If the business fails, that means that Leo fails and they are extremely determined not to fail. Leo is the most extravagant sender of all astrology signs. They will not over do it but they will surround themselves with luxury as much as possible. They will never settle for second best.

Leo Temperament:

Leo loves the new and extraordinary, they despise dull, regular routines and if this is what they are faced with, they will simply create their own drama and excitement. This makes Leo prone to stir up a situation out of nowhere just for something to keep their vivacious temperament satisfied. Leo has an amazing ability to bounce back from any feelings of despair or unfortunate events. They do not like to be unhappy, it hurts their pride so they will take matters into their own hands and make things right again. Leos could come into conflict with other powerhouse type of people who will not take orders and not give an inch, Leos will not budge their opinion, they will understand and accept opinions of others but they do not take well to people to try to impose their beliefs on them. Leos most often have the temperament of a demanding, spoiled child but this is only shown if someone steps on the boundaries of their kingdom. They react this way because of their territoriality.

Leo Deep Inside:

Leos are extremely sensitive but they hide that very well. Leos love praise and flattery, their egos demand respect and adoration. Leo is all about pride. This can cause them to be self-centered but the warmth of the Leo heart keeps it under control. If Leo’s audience (otherwise known as their friends) do not provide the needed appreciation, Leo is too proud to ask for it and they will suffer a hurt ego, but no one will ever know and they will suffer in silence. The secret of the Leo is that they need to be needed.

Leo in a Nutshell:

Leo is the lion, this well-suited symbol represents Leo very well. They possess a kingdom which they protect and cherish. The are high esteemed, honorable and very devoted to themselves in particular! The kingdom could be anything from work to home to a partner, whatever it is, you rule it. Leo is always center stage and full of flair, they enjoy basking in the spotlight. A Leo always makes their presence known. Leos are full of energy that acts like a magnet for other people. Others are attracted to Leo’s wit, charm, and what they have to say for they speak of things grand and very interesting. Leo will never settle for second best. They want only the best which can cause lavish excessive spending habits as they enjoy their life of luxury, which is all to easily justified by the grand and magnificent Leo! Public image is very important to Leo, with luxurious possessions and ways of life, this keeps the public image in high standing. They will do whatever it takes to protect their own reputation. Leos are very generous, kind and openhearted people. If a Leo is crossed, they will strike back with force but they are not one to hold a grudge, they easily forgive, forget and move on. Leos are always trying to make things right in the world, they have larger than life emotions and they need to feel like they have accomplished something at the end of the day. They react to situations with action instead of sitting back and thinking about it, they are not impulsive however because they look at the future and consider consequences of their actions.

What it’s like to date a Leo Woman:

The first step is to give her praise and adoration. The relationship will never work if she does not receive this from you. Do not look at other women when you are with her, she has to be the only one in your eyes. The thought of competition with other women completely turns her off, for she is marvelous and grand and better than any other woman (in her eyes)! Be prepared however to compete with other men. She attracts men, deliberately or not, because of her dazzling personality. She makes a good partner because she gives undying affection and love and makes you feel really good about yourself. She is kind and supportive with an adventurous streak, she is always fun to be with. Leo woman will dominate, But not completely for she still needs the man to lead the way and give her the desired sense of approval, she looks up to her man. Leo woman is perfect for the man who is affectionate and has a strong character but not too controlling. She needs someone who is passionate about everything in their life and who strives for the best in everything, because so does she.